Thursday, March 22, 2007

Bangkok women really are fellas

That's the pneumonic device they taught us in dive training so we'd remember what to check during our buddy check -- B is for boyancy, W is for weights, R is for releases, A is for air and F is for final (I think)...  That and the male is always right -- as in you should always have the male side of the weight belt on your right side. 
Anyway, I have to say some beautiful Thai girls just walked by outside the internet cafe I'm sitting in and I couldn't help wondering if they really are girls...  As you can probably guess, I successfully made it to thailand.  My last few days in india were quite a blur.  I took a bus from kerala back over to madurai where I caught a very cheap flight back to chenai in time to have late night drinks with a former colleague who just happened to be in india on business for Hewitt! 
My bowels are going to burst so I have to get going.  I wanted to check in quick though and mention that new photos are up.
ciao

Friday, March 16, 2007

Absolute Madness...

Physically I'm back on the mainland of India, but psychologically I've already left it and I'm sitting on a nice tranquil tropical island somewhere in Thailand.  I've decided to end my India trip a bit prematurely before really seeing all that much.  Somehow my heart just feels it isn't in the right place.  Andaman had given me new direction -- one that I hadn't expected.  I've bought a ticket leaving from Chenai to Bangkok next Thursday.  Actually I attempted three times to buy the ticket through orbitz, and each time they gave me the same response a day later saying I needed to rebook my ticket.  After the third day and third attempt I gave up and went directly to the carrier, successfully bought the ticket and even saved a few bucks.
So now I'm just biding my time waiting to get out of here.  I thought maybe I'd spend the week hanging out in Mammallapuram and Pondicherry relaxing, but my first night in mammallapuram (after having already paid for two nights) I met two germans (yes girls) who were leaving the next day for pondicherry.  We made plans to meet up the next morning for breakfast and then visit the caves together.  Afterwards over lunch as we were saying our goodbyes, they said sorry for leaving me all alone again and joked that I could always join them.  Hmm, why not.  An hour later we were sitting on the corner waiting for a bus.  Tonight we're heading toward madurai which is complete and total insanity for me because I'm quickly going further off in the wrong direction and in five days I'll probably find myself on a 30 or so hour train ride back to chenai.  Then again maybe I'll get lazy and hop on a plane.  Who knows.  That's so far off in the future why think about it right now...
In the mean time it is nice to be moving around (it seems to be the state I'm most comfortable with) and of course hanging out with people.

Monday, February 26, 2007

lost in paradise

well, I decided to extend my stay in paradise by an extra two weeks -- increasing my odds of being killed by a falling coconut. 
With the extra time I decided to sign up for a scuba diving course and I just finished the first 4 days (one day of instruction and three days of practical training/diving).  It'd been great!  The theory was easy for me, but I was a bit worried I wouldn't take so well to being under water -- I've always loved being in the water, but my ears are a bit sensitive and I didn't know how comfortable I'd be with the mask and regulator.  I tried snuba once with my family in hawaii -- basically a scuba tank on a raft hooked up to a hose limiting how deep you can go but also requiring little training -- but I've always wanted to do real scuba and now I've had the chance to learn in one of the best places to go diving!  Yesterday we saw a great see turtle.  The coral is always beautiful to see up close, and of course swimming with a school of fish is just an altogether surreal experience.  I've signed up for the advanced course later this week which includes 5 more dives.  Then I'll be headed back to the mainland next week.  From there who knows...
Ok, like I said, the internet connection here is a pain to come by so you probably won't here from me again for a while...

Friday, February 16, 2007

death by coconut

Well, aside from the possibility of a major shift in tectonic plates, and the occasional tourist who takes too much drugs and goes missing, the main hazard here seems to be falling coconuts.  Yesterday morning I stood up from the breakfast table and started to walk toward my hut when a coconut fell right in my path about 10 paces in front of me.  Good thing I didn't get up a few seconds earlier!  I asked a friend here how many people actually die a year from falling coconuts.  He kind of shook his head -- not because he diddn't know, but because he really didn't want to tell me the number!  You hear them falling all the time.  Still, the odds of getting hit are probably similar to those of getting struck by lightning. Maybe a little higher.  Coconuts never fall in the same spot twice though!  Ha ha, fortunately nobodies stupid enough to believe that one...
Technologies a funny thing here.  I think there are three or so internet connections on this island -- all dial up.  Two days ago there was no electricity -- they ran out of petrol and apparently they like to wait here until the run out before ordering more.  The same thing happened with beer two weeks ago -- they were ten days with out it.  Yesterday there was electricity, but no dial tone.  All the while my cell phone kept plugging along just fine though -- sms is the way to go here...

Sunday, February 11, 2007

Soaking up the rays and praying the earth stands still...

I'm in Andaman now -- the main island. I flew here this morning and walked from the airport to the port. I figure I'll be flying out of here so that will give me time to stay here on the way out.  Best now to head toward a secluded island and stay on some hut on the beach with no plumbing...  Of course after the last 2 hours walking (it wasn't that far but I took a few wrong but scenic turns) I could definitely use a shower!
The wedding in Calcutta was nice and I'll have to describe it a bit eventually, but for now I just wanted to check in and say I may be going off the grid again for a little bit.  I have no idea if havelock island has any internet connections.  Then again I have no idea if the ticket I bought is for real or if I spent too much on a counterfeit...  We'll just have to hope for the best. 

Saturday, January 27, 2007

Ah, incredible india...

I was sick yesterday.  I don't know what I ate that did it, but I can think of a few things!  I think I'm going to go back to being ultra conservative and picky about what I put in my mouth.  You miss out on some good stuff, but then again you don't die...
One thing I noticed was that I was a lot less patient and tolerant of some of the petty annoyances here yesterday when I wasn't feeling well.  My hotel for one -- it's overpriced and I get the impression the main difference between a budget hotel and a midrange one (besides the price) is basically the presense of a tv.  From now on I'm sticking to budget hotels -- the first night I was here it was impossible to sleep because there were a number of indian families staying on my floor and they decided to all hang out together in the hallway outside my door.  Somebody's TV was going at full volume and their door was open -- probably so they could hear it from the hall over everybody elses shouts.  In the morning the noise started up again and I wanted to go scream at them. 
I eventually got up, had some "corn flex/pooridge" which was corn flakes with hot milk.  Then I hopped on my first bicycle rickshaw.  I offered 20 ruppees to get to the south most ghat -- he finally agreed and then dropped me off half way.  I walked the rest of the way along the river (I'm in varanasi by the way...) and ignored most of the people trying to sell me something.  The sales approach is usually the same.  It starts out with "Hello friend" or "Hello Uncle" or "Excuse me sir" and then progresses to "What country you are [sic] from?"  I generally respond with "United States". They apparently all understand America and most get USA, but I think United States might sound a little too much like "You something something" which confuses them.  Thats when they usually repeat the question and after a few more rounds sometimes I'm nice and just say America.  Then of course there's the "how long you are in India?" and "How you are finding Varanasi?"  That one had me confused for a second -- did they want to know how I got here or how I like it?  After about 2 minutes of chit chat they generally want you to come visit their store.
The rickshaw wallahs are much more direct.  Simply "Hello friend, where you going?"  I hate to be rude, but really, I didn't ask for a ride, so what business is it of theirs?  You can't walk 20 steps from your hotel to the internet cafe or just some street shop to pick up water without five guys asking where you're going and saying they'll take you there for 50 rupees.  The last few nights I walked back to my hotel from the town center -- I gues it's about 5 km. 
"Hello friend, where you going?" 
"This way.  For a walk."
"I give you ride.  50 rupees."
"No thanks"
"Ok sir, 40 rupees."
"For what, I'm just taking a walk!"
"Ok, 30 rupees sir". 
At this point I just try my best to ignore the guy for the next 5 minutes as he rides along side me waiting for me to ask for a ride.  Sometimes I have fun and offer to take them for a ride on my back for just 5 rupees, but yesterday I was tired and that game gets old quick. 
Ok, I should really get out of here.  I need to head over to the train station to see if I can get a ticket out of here in two days.  It's insane.  I went to the tourist office next to my hotel to ask if they could help me arrange a ticket out of town. 
"Sir, it's very easy.  We make nice office for you at train station"
"I know, I've been there.  Its a room with 50 people all waiting for one person to help them get their ticket"
"No sir, we have special room for tourists.  Very nice.  Very easy."
"Yeah, that's the room I was talking about -- there are 50 tourists sitting on the ground waiting to get helped.  Is that the only way to get a ticket?"
"Then now there will be 51."
"So that's the only way?"
"Yes sir, only way."
Time to go be number 51...

Tuesday, January 23, 2007

New pictures of an adventurous day trip

Ok ok, enough with the laundry jokes...  Sorry I didn't check in earlier, but that story had a happy ending -- the day I left all my left over laundry miraculously turned up and nothing was lost!
 
I'm in kajuraho now -- in between I stopped off at gwalior and orcha each for a night.  The orcha stop involved taking a train to jhansi and walking about five kilometers across town with my back pack.  I was looking for a hotel but didn't like what I saw so when I got to the bus station I took a cheap tempo (kind of like an oversized rickshaw) to orcha.  A private rickshaw probably would have been rupees 150 -- this was only 30 (It should have only been 10 but I was tired, hungry, didn't care and let myself got ripped off -- all I cared was that I didn't pay the 150 rupees).  The tempo had two benches facing each other, each about as wide as the back seat in most western style midsized cars.  We squeezed in 12 people (don't worry, four of them were kids) and my back pack. 
 
The next day I was fortunate to find a tempo back into jhansi. It was relatively empty -- only seven adults -- two of them were travelers with backpacks like me. They were both headed to Kajuraho and we all found our bus together.  It was kind of an unusual meeting in that we exchanged names immediately upon meeting in the tempo!  "I'm sarah." "Hi Sarah, I'm Jeff".  "Oh, I'm Jeff 2" the other jeff said -- the explained its actually jeanfrancois but gets shortened to Jeff.  We all checked into the same hotel and met a french guy named Damien that night.  Somehow that night we also met a few locals and i didn't find out exactly how we met them until a few days later but they showed us around and one offered to take us out to a tiger reserve with water falls 40 kilometers from town.  I don't have time now to go into the details of that adventure but I just uploaded the pictures and until I have a chance to say more I'll let them speak for themselves...
 
 
Until next time,
Namaste

Tuesday, January 16, 2007

Just uploaded new pictures

I just uploaded the rest of my pictures since thanksgiving so you can find them all over on my flickr account -- <http://www.flickr.com/photos/dscheffy>

I'd love to stick around a bit longer and say more at this point, but I've already been here a while and my bladders about to burst...  It looks like I'll be here one more day and then I'm going to head out early morning toward gwalior on my slow way to Calcutta.  My cold is SLOWLY getting better and I've been sleeping a lot since getting here, but my ears are still going crazy from the plane ride. 

It's like being home here, but there is one slightly annoying thing about staying at the shivalik house in Delhi -- laundry.  The moment I got here I hesitantly deposited a bag of dirty laundry knowing full well I'd likely lose about half of it...  I don't know that things actually get lost, I think they just get shuffled in the laundry queue.  Imagine a gallon of water with a small hole in the bottom.  Everyday half a gallon of water trickles out but another half gallon is added and stired into the vessel.  A week later some of that initial gallon of water is still waiting to spill out...  At the moment I'm missing 4 socks (not 4 pair of socks, but 4 socks -- two of which happen to be from the same pair) a hat and at least one pair of my precious underwear...  Another half of my things I can see hanging outside my door after having been washed this morning -- three days after I put them in the laundry.  Oh well, that's india for you...

Ok, I'm going to run off, grab a bite, use the facilities and go see the Red fort again (it was closed yesterday for monday...)

Namaste

Saturday, January 13, 2007

Safe and sound at Shivalik

Well, after two short and pleasant flights (punctuated by a relatively long and uneventful stopover in bahrain) I arrived safely in New Delhi.  It took about an hour for my luggage to show up, but after that the prepaid taxi line was short and the way to my Auntie's house was familiar.  I wasn't sure if they even knew I was coming, but I knew I'd be welcomed with open arms...  Fortunately they were home and awake -- or maybe I woke them...  I had some tea, took a quick nap up in the room on the roof and then I was off on my hunt for idli, dosa and sambar!  Mmmm.  The sambar left a warm and loving feeling in my tummy, but now that feeling has moved to my intestins and it doesn't seem to be stopping so I'd better keep this short and skip my way back to a lieu. 

Just wanted to let everybody know that I'm cozy warm in sunny India.  I have an indian travel book now and a local sim card, so I'm ready to venture out into the world -- as soon as I recuperate from my cold...

Happy orthodox newyear everybody!

Friday, January 12, 2007

Leaving on a jet plane...

Don't know when I'll be back again.  Two days ago I was singing leaving on a night train...  Funny the songs that get stuck in your head.  All through aya sofia I kept thinking now its istanbul, not constantinople.

Anyway, my bag is broken down and stuffed in a duffle bag, my airport shuttle is coming in a few minutes, and I have eggs and coffee coming up for breakfast.  Just another day and I'll be home in india!

Till then...

Thursday, January 11, 2007

I finally made it to istanbul with very little extra time to spare -- I fly out tomorrow afternoon. I suppose I could have really pushed my luck and arrived tomorrow morning on the night train, but that would have meant nearly three days of straight travel without any shower. That and I wouldn't get to see istanbul! I think last nights train ride was the most stressed I've been. On the ride from belgrade to ljubljana some canadians told me about a guy they met who was traveling to greece, slept through his stop and somehow ended up in istanbul without a visa. They arrested him and he spent a day in a turkish prison. Apparently the cops took pitty on him and that night when he got out they all took him out for a drink and he had a great time. I don't know the guy, so I have no clue how valid the story is, and after making the border crossing certain parts of it seem unlikely, but still, it had me a bit worried because I didn't want to end up in prison and miss my flight tomorrow. My travel guide indicated that you could get a visa upon arrival, but I hadn't met anybody who had personally done the entrance by train and could explain how the whole visa aquisition process would work. I asked on the train, but nobody who worked on the train spoke english, and nobody who spoke english (namely one girl from prague who was only traveling as far as bulgaria) knew.

It all worked out fine in the end, the train stopped at the turkish border around 3 in the morning. Everybody shuffled out to get their passport stamped. I was at the end of the line and by the time I got up to the front the officer told me I needed to go around the corner to get a visa. On my way over I saw too english speaking looking types and asked if they knew where I needed to go -- they pointed off in the direction I was headed and I eventually found it.

Back on the train I was finally able to get some sleep. The train was relatively empty and I had the whole cabin to myself which was both nice in terms of noise and privacy, but also a little bit sketchy... Sometimes its just nice to share the confusion with a fellow traveler who's just as confused -- even if they don't speak your language. The door had a chain on it though, so I really wasn't worried about getting gassed or having my things stolen -- it was just this worry that I'd sleep through the border crossing that kept me from sleeping well until 4 in the morning. That and the cold I caught a few days ago.

In the morning when we arrived They Might Be Giants was playing over and over in my fog filled head. When I got off the train I bumped into the couple that pointed me to the visa office at the border. I asked where they were from -- the standard travelers introduction (which is the reason you can go days without ever learning somebodys name). When they said chicago I was just speechless for a minute. Three months. I went three months and never met anybody from chicago. Then in Salzburg I meet somebody from Roselle. A week later Two weeks later in Wien I meet a girl from Gurnee. Then in Budapest one from Geneva and then just recently in Brasov somebody from Kenosha. She was pretty embarassed to claim to be from Chicago when she isn't even from the right state, but I didn't complain. When you're half way around the world, what's a hundred miles... So what's with the sudden burst of wannabe chicagoans? I explained my surprise to the couple and said from the looks of it they might even be "real" chicagoans.

"No," they replied, "we've only lived their five years."

"Actually I just meant you look like you live in the city -- as opposed to roselle, gurnee, geneva or kenosha. What neighborhood do you live in?"

"Logan Square"

More silence. Finally "Hmm, that might explain why I thought you looked familiar =) I lived at fullerton and kedzie over the summer."

"Yeah, that's right by us."

Of course I never did get their names, but Ruth or Leslie, if you have any friends that went to europe for five weeks, tell them that was your exroommate they bumped into.



I now have a friend in Prague. I finally finished the hat I started a week ago with yarn I bought in Budapest. It didn't take long, but I hadn't spent much time on it and I wanted to finish it before leaving europe -- it had become some kind of a farewell project. At one point I was in a bad mood while crocheting a few rows and felt a little bit like I was releasing all my frustrations into the hat -- that was good for me, but I felt bad about the idea of giving somebody a hat with bad karma... Anyway, when I took it out to finish on the train yesterday, the czech girl I was talking to seemed to take an interest. I had her try it on for the last few rows to help me decide when to stop and then asked her if she'd like it. I explained the whole bad karma thing, but said I was in a good mood for most of it, so the yin balanced the yan out. She graciously accepted and said that she had to give me something in return. I said she should just send me a photo of her wearing it on her ski trip in bulgaria. She apparently wasn't much of a negotiator though as she ended up throwing in a place to stay if ever I was in prague -- so now I have a friend to visit in Prague =)

I really should get going. I'm hungry and I only have a day to see Istanbul. Its been a great last week in europe though. Romania was nice. I spent a day in Sibiu -- apparently this years culture capital of europe -- and another day visiting draculas castle. One of the girls I was traveling with woke up one morning with two mysterious looking bites on her arm! We were all pretty sure they were probably just bed bugs though and not a vampire. Based on the spacing that would have been one wide @$$ jaw if it was a vampire bite... So I don't think she'll be cringing from the light of day anytime soon.

Some gipsy kids tried to pick my pocket in Bucharest. We were walking to the palace -- aparently the worlds second largest building after the pentagon -- and I had my backpack with me because I was going straight to the train. Two kids started asking me for money and wouldn't leave me alone when I said no. They kept following, or rather should I say staying in front of me and making it impossible for me to move. I started yelling "No" and "Go" and motioned for them to get away. After a bit I had to start pushing them away and I caught one reaching for the breast pocket of my jacket. Afterwards I noticed he had succeeded in pulling the zipper all the way down. Whenever they reached for my pockets I'd smack their hands away and it was to the point where I really felt I needed to start elbowing or pushing them down to the ground to get my point across, but some local people started yelling at them and they finally left me alone. A few blocks later though they were back and with reinforcements. Now two had become four and they were hassling all of us. I got a little more aggressive, but we finally just walked into a coffee shop to get away from them -- that and some of the girls wanted to rearrange their passports and wallets.

When we left the coffee shop the kids were gone and I had to head back to the train. I only hope they didn't come back to bother the girls more.

Ok, time for me to go fill my tummy and see the city.

Two more days to Dehli -- Sagar get the idli sambar ready cause here I come!

Saturday, January 06, 2007

Transylvania 65000

So I hear Transylvania bites, but I figured I'd have to go and see for it myself.  I've been here chilling out in budapest for a week now.  Had some good fun, walked around, mixed weather -- some days were foggy, some were beautiful.  The baths were nice and relaxing and yesterday I did some caving.  It's been a bit like hotel california though.  Every day I say, I'm going to leave tomorrow.  Tomorrow I'll move on.  But tomorrow comes and I haven't made my plans, and the next thing I know another day goes by. 

Today I met up with some girls that I met caving yesterday.  A friend asked where I'm hanging out that I meet all these girls in caves -- duh, in caves of course...  We went to a wine tasting and they mentioned they were heading to brassov on a night train tonight.  That's exactly where I was planning on going next in between here and turkey, so I asked if I could join them, and now I have an hour to catch a train out of town. So as usual I have a convenient excuse for keeping this short =) 

One more week to india -- It was so tempting to get indian food here, but I think I can hold out one more week...

Saturday, December 30, 2006

Happy New Year!

Well, I just arrived in Budapest for newyears (a day early to give myself a chance to rest up for the imminent partying =)  It's a bit late so I'll keep this short.  Let's see, Christmas in Ljubljana was nice and relaxing, Graz (the home town of Arnold -- it's not a tumor) was quaint, then I road with my new friends Carmen and Harry out to the mountains (hmm, I think they might have been the alps, but I guess just the baby alps or something) to stay a few nights at one of Harry's friends ski homes.  They cooked the best dinners (austrian goulasch and some onion steak roast) and after a rather crazy game of austrian spoons the first night we took it easy and played risk the second night.  Actually, Mathias taught me an austrian card game which is a bit like a variation (very varied that is) of Euker -- I won't bother explaining the rules now, but I think it was called schnapsen if anybody wants to google it...
Yesterday we went skiing -- so now I've skied (if you can call falling on your ass 10 times skiing).  I only went half way down once, but I got to know all the parts of the hill I hit very close up!  On some of the steep parts I made every attempt to slide down as far as I could head first after wiping out, just so I wouldn't have to attempt skiing it...  Ok, I'll admit I'm an awful skier -- a lot of you know that already, but this was not the best conditions for a novice. It hasn't snowed much this winter so the snow was all artificial and icy and the mountains are actual mountains unlike the hills we have in wisconsin... Someday I'll have to spend a few months in a nice hilly cold weather town and get my snow feet.
Anyway, as tempting as it was to stay in Austria with all the great people I met, something inside was nagging me to get back on the road and head on to Budapest before new years.  I'm here with some guys from Austin that I met in Beograd so I'm sure it'll be a good time. 
Boldog ey evet (happy new years)!

Monday, December 25, 2006

Merry Christmas Everyone!

Vesel Božič from Ljubljana!  

Ok, I have to appologize to half of my slavic friends because I spent the last four days in Belgrade.  Close your eyes if you arent serbian when I say that I had a great time.  Never the less, it was also nice to leave.  I think I had a little too much smoke --  the hostel where I stayed, not to mention the train ride and everywhere else I went was just sooooo smoke filled.  Everybody seems to smoke there.  Even more than I remember in Germany from ten years ago... 

I was planning on going south towards greece for the holidays and then sailing up to turkey, but plans have changed -- well, if you can call that vague intent I had a plan.  Now Ill be taking the northern route through hungary and romania.  Good thing I didnt already tear those chapters out of my lonely planet... 

Anyway, I really cant write long now because Im writing from a hostel where Im not even staying...  Im spending xmas with a friend here in ljubljana and then Ill be moving on out toward budapest for New Years.

So merry xmas to all, and to all a good night.  Ho ho ho ho.  And happy new years too of course, but hopefully Ill check in again before then.

Saturday, December 16, 2006

My first wifi connection in weeks...

Saturday December 16, 2006
As much as I love germany, I do hate how hard it is to find an open wifi connection there. Even in the hostel I stayed at in frankfurt they had some kind of encription turned on. They gave me the passcode, but for whatever reason I couldn't get it to work on my palm tx. Sometimes it would be nice to have a real computer, but mostly I'm happy with what I have in my pocket.
So I'm in Salzburg right now. I didn't plan on staying, it was more of a town I was passing through because it was on the border of germany and I wanted to use they last of my german rail pass to get out of the country. Today I'll be hopping on a train down to ljubljana (the town I still haven't learned to pronounce). Its only taken me a few more days than I thought it would to get there though. My first night in Salzburg I met a group of australians who had spent the last year in different towns of austria on a highschool exchange program. This was about two minutes after checking into the hostel, and with no other plans I happily excepted their invitation to go out. I think it's a bit funny, because in Frankfut Ursel was complaining about all the young annoying people she kept meeting in Costa Rica. She said she realized she was getting old. Well, I don't feel like I'm there yet, because somehow I still feel completely at ease with 18 year olds... In the words of whats his name from dazed and confused (ok, I know his name, but can't spell it...) "I love highschool girls, I keep getting older, they stay the same age". Of course that quote would at this point be utterly lost on them...
Yesterday I woke up, had some breakfast at the hostel, and debated whether to stick around another day or not. I was connecting to check my email and about to toss a coin to answer that question when a girl in the hall asked about my palm pilot. She seemed a little dazed and confused and we exchanged the usual pleasantries -- where are you from, how long have you been going, etc... She was from virginia and said she'd been woofing (woof -- working on organic farm) for a while in italy and now she was making her way to barcelona via frankfurt. At that point all I knew was I wanted to hear more. "Mind if I hang out with you today?" She accepted and I didn't need to flip that coin anymore...
About half way through the day I finally figured out who she reminded me of -- she talked just like an old friend from highschool (vicki K for those of you who actually went to school with me). It was interesting because we both shared the same absolute lack of direction and just spent the day wandering around getting lost. We did see the castle and some marienette puppet museum which was pretty interesting, but then we wandered around the weinachtsmarkt, and finally came up with the quest of searching for some yarn (It just so happened that she had a crochet hook on her and wanted to learn to crochet, and I happened to know how to crochet and was happy to teach her). So I spent my friday evening giving basic crochet lessons.
I know though, I've been bad and haven't mentioned anything since Frankfurt, and even that was just a short, hey there, I'm still alive. I did start to write something once or twice while I was on various trains moving around germany, but somehow I just wasn't really in the mood and after a few minutes either my battery died or I got lazy and gave up. I felt like whatever I was writing was boring, and if I didn't want to write it, they I wouldn't want to read it... Then one day on my train ride to potsdam I had the most unexpected feeling. I was sitting in my seat, staring out the window, bored, thinking, hmm, I suppose I could write something... Nah, not really in the mood. I could read (I'm reading a german translation of hitchikers guide to the galaxy and the restaurant at the end of the universe right now) but no, I was feeling a little bit too lazy for that too. I could sleep... No, not really tired. In the end I think I got up and went to the dining car to get a cup of coffee -- like I said, I wasn't tired, I was just bored and coffee seemed like a nice lazy distraction at the time. When I got back to my seat and thought about how absolutely lazy and unmotivated I'd become, I suddenly had the sensation I swore I'd never have -- I wanted to work! I wouldn't say I missed work, but I felt like I needed to do somthing that would engage my head, force me to concentrate and think a little bit. Even if only for a few weeks. So yes, it happened, and it only took three months -- I got to the point where I wanted to work...
I'll even admit I started to get a semblance of a feeling of homesickness when I was alone in frankfurt. I talked about it with shukdee yesterday because she said she was getting a similarly hard to describe feeling recently too. When I told her what I had decided it was, she thought it was a plausible explanation. It's december. It really has little to do with homesickness, but it's a bit of a sense of loneliness, or maybe more emptiness. But the more I thought about it, I realized it's just my usual december feeling -- the weather gets colder, people start to stay in doors, the clubs are a little bit emptier. Last year I was at a bar and noticed there were way more guys than girls. A friend said that it's always that way in chicago winters -- the girls don't go out because they'd rather stay in and cuddle -- of course the girls who do go out are on a mission to find a guy to stay at home and cuddle with... My problem with december is that I've noticed the last few years I've tended to meet some girl, fall head over heals for her, and then spend the next six months trying to get over her. I was hoping that traveling and staying in warmer weather would break that cycle... But then I made the mistake of spending december in Germany! So the lonely feeling I was getting was just my usual winter instinctual urge to nest... Of course realizing that doesn't make it feel any less real =)
Yesterday I told somebody about Descartes's fetish for cross eyed women.
I know that seems like quite a nonsequitor, but if you could see inside my mind that comment made complete sense at the time =)
As for my last two weeks in germany, I had a great time. I'm glad I ended up stranded an extra week waiting on my visa for India. For those of you who want the short version, after arriving in milan I went straight up to stuttgart and checked into a hostel in my old hometown. The next day I sent out a few last minute emails looking for anybody to hang out with. My new found friend in halle texted me back that they had to help a friend move, but she'd surely be happy to have another person help out (the friends name was janine and I ended up crashing on her floor in berlin a week later). Halle was great. I helped Janine move out, went to party at a club which was apparently an unoccupied building which had been "occupied" and rennovated into a party house, went to a class, painted and even played some ultimate frisbee. Then I was off to Tuebingen to visit an old friend. Jasmin decided to take Friday off to hang out with me (and mostly because she felt like she could really use the break). We did a little shopping (I bought a new hat beacuse I'd left mine in halle -- of course I found it again two days ago in my backpack), watched some german dvds, bought some used furniture, installed a washer and baced cookies. Sunday I showed up late at my aunts in Nuernberg for lunch and spent the day listening to stories about her early years in chicago (that may sound boring, but at this point she's one of my few remaining connections to my family history -- or at least the most vocal one so I'm always fascinated by the stories). Monday I headed upp to Frankfurt to get my visa but arrived to late and stayed in a hostel until Tuesday morning when I discovered I'd have to wait a whole week rather than a day... Ursel had just arrived back from costa rica so I spent the day hanging out with her and then left Wednesday to visit Franzi in Potsdam. Thursday I went to two classes -- methods of foriegn language instruction and math for kids -- I learned the difference between aufteilen and verteilen. I'm not sure we would distinguish between the two in english...
Franzi got a call in the moring asking if she could babysit that night. I said if she didn't I would because it was good money so she did and that meant I needed to make other plans for the night. I texted my friends in Halle and they said they were busy, but suggested I try Janine in Berlin -- she was available and said I was welcome to crash on her floor. She had the coolest place! She's staying in an apartment in berlin with three roommates. One has a huge dog and another has two rats -- I got a few pictures of one crawling around on my shoulder -- they were so cutet =) Her room was more like a walk in closet -- I'd say about 5 feet wide and maybe 12 long, but high ceilings so her bed is up in a loft. That left enough room on the floor for me to stretch out. The amazing part is that she only pays 50 euros a month for rent! Awesome =) Friday I headed over to Hanover to visit my friends Mark and Ursel again. I'd have to say the highlight was going to a sauna with Mark on Sunday -- I really needed a good cleaning and walked out of there squeaky clean =)
Monday I went up north to visit a cousin I haven't seen in over 10 years. It was fun to catch up and Tuesday I noticed my camera had finally expired so she and Christof took me shopping for a new one. Then it was back to frankfurt to pick up my passport and now Salzburg which I've already mentioned... So that's basically my germany experience. I should get going now though because my laundry is probably dry and my train leaves in an hour.
tschuss

Tuesday, December 05, 2006

Coming full circle -- again...

Well, Im in Frankfurt again and writing this from a friends place.  I dont really want to spend a lot of time here so Ill be keeping it short.  Sorry that I havent written in a while, I actually started to write something on the train twice, but kind of gave up after a short while because I just wasnt feeling particularly inspired to write...  That and I was tired.  And I felt more like writing in german than english...
This is my third time in Frankfurt -- this is where I started, this is where I passed through after my circle around the baltic and before my circle around western europe, and this is where Ive ended up coming back to to pick up my visa for india.  Too bad I didnt take the time to get it in the States -- It turns out if you dont live here it takes a week rather than a day and costs twice as much...  So I wasnt planning on spending the next week in germany, but then again I wasnt planning anything.  Still, Germany seems to have had other plans for me so Ill be sticking around a bit.  I have to say Ive had a great time here so far.  Last week I helped somebody move (one of my favorite pasttimes as many of you know), painted, played ultimate frisbee, went to a class at the university (all of those were in halle), then installed a washing machine, watched a small menge of movies, baked biscotti and helped a friend buy and transport some chairs (those were all in Tuebingen).  Tomorrow Ill be headed back toward the east to visit another friend, but I havent figured out any plans after that. 
Ill do my best one of these days to work up the energy to actually write something I myself would find skatterbrained enough to enjoy reading, but for now I guess youll just have to settle with the quick comment that I am in fact still alive. 

Thursday, November 23, 2006

Happy Thanksgiving!

To those of you who are wondering where I've been, it occurred to me that I probably never mentioned here that I was going "home" for the thanksgiving holiday.  So right now I'm sitting in St Louis at my brothers waiting around for thanksgiving dinner later on today.  Monday I flew back from italy to chicago and yesterday we drove down to St. Louis.  It's a short stay though -- I'll be getting back on a plane Saturday and then head up to Germany to visit some old friends and family before moving on down through the balkans. 
So for those of my friends in the states, I'm here!  Happy Thanksgiving! 
To the rest of the world, don't worry (or rather be very very worried) because I shall return very soon =)
ciao

Saturday, November 11, 2006

The art of a good con

I should preface this entry with the comment that it was actually written a few weeks ago on the train from lisbon to faro -- that would put it back on the 26th of october.
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I'm somewhat ashamed (or I suppose maybe embarrassed is more the word) to admit that I allowed myself to be conned the other day. Yes, I realize that's an odd way of putting it -- allowing oneself to be conned rather than just saying I was conned, but then again I think that's kind of the way a good con really works -- all the while its taking place, one has the feel, a certain apprehension, that something is amiss, and yet for whatever reason, be it sloth, pride, greed (or any of the other seven deadly sins) one can't help but go along for the ride... In my case I'd say pride and sloth were the culprits. I was taking a break to sit down in a square near the water side just at the base of the main avenue in lisbon when a girl came along and asked something in portugese. I just kind of shook my head and said in spanish, "lo siento, no puedo hablar portugese".
"English? Do you speak english?"
"Yes," I answered apprehensively.
"I'm sorry, do you know what time it is?" she asked.
I took out my cell phone and said "I think it's 2:15 if my phone is still on spanish time"
Then she went into her sob story -- more or less -- I mean it wasn't that abrupt that she started asking for help, first she asked if I knew how far the airport was. Allegedly that damn air france had lost her luggage -- never take them. Did I have a guide book, or know where one could exchange money? I said I only had a few pages, but there seemed to be a number of places to exchange money up the main avenue -- I'd seen them that morning as I walked to my hostel (first mistake).
"Oh, which hostel are you staying in?"
"Uh, the hostel. I don't know if it has a name. Just up the street quite a ways"
"The one by picaus? That's where I'm staying"
"Yeah, that one."
"Ah, I thought you looked familiar"
It's funny how suggestible our minds are. I did remember seeing a girl as I checked in, and the girl did look more or less like her, so of course at the mere suggestion that she had seen me my brain just filled in the blank and let itself believe that was her. All plausible, but at the same time I was aware there was a distinct possibility she was playing me for a fool -- after all, everything she said had been more or less ambiguous and all the blanks had been filled in after I had hesitantly offered up enough information...
"You see, I've been to the western union office, I had some money wired there, but I don't have my card" uh, or the story went something like that because I wasn't really paying that much attention. Honestly I was more interested in eating my roll and cheese -- it was good! Mmm, multigrain and crisp... "I tried to exchange my Rens, but they won't take them, I have these coins...."
"Oh, you wont have much luck then, banks don't like to exhange coins no matter where you go. Not sure they'll take south african currency anywhere here though".
"I hate to be a bother, but do you think there's anyway you could help me out? I could give you my rens and then I'll find you in the hostel and I can give you back the euros for the rens."
This is of course where my pride came in... So hard to watch a damsel in distress (and no, she wasn't all that attractive so this wasn't motivated out of lust!) I figured ten euros would probably get her whereever she needed to go so I looked in my wallet -- damn, all I had was two twenties and a five. I really didn't want to give her twenty, but I decided to be a good sumaritan and trust her. "Here, take twenty. I'll be around the hostel tonight. If you want to, you'll find me and give it back." She started to offer me the rens, but I said, "no, don't worry, I trust you. They're no good to me."
She of course thanked me profusely and then said she was staying in room 424, what room was I in... I hadn't checked in yet, so I didn't have one. She asked for my name so she could write it down. I was again apprehensive of giving out that kind of information, but I wrote it down on her map.
Then she was off. I finished my roll and started to snack on some sunflower seeds and raisins. Within a minute or two she was back.
"I'm sorry, but maybe you can help me out here -- how much is 37 dollars? My seminar is 37 dollars but I have to pay in euros."
"One euro is 1.30 dollars so that's about 30 euros."
She started doing the math on her paper, 10 euros would be 13 dollars, 20 euros would be 26 dollars, 30 euros would be 39 dollars, so 37 dollars would be about 29 dollars. "I'm terribly sorry to keep bothering you, I know you're trying to eat, but do you think I could borrow a few more euros?"
Now I was annoyed. It was pretty obvious at this point that she'd conned me and now she was just milking me for all I was worth.
"I thought you have everything in your bag? Aren't you going to the airport before your seminar?"
"Yes, but I have to check in first, and the check in time is soon, so if ... Bla bla bla bla..."
"I'm sorry, I would, but if I give you another twenty, then I won't have any money myself and I'd really rather not walk around with nothing on me." (this was a complete and total lie -- I had more money in my money belt and of course there was that other 5 I'd mentioned...)
"Oh, if you'd like, I can meet you at rossio, say a little after 4? Do you think you can make it that long?"
Now this may sound ludicrous, but to tell you the truth, that last little bit annoys me the most. It's one thing to con me out of some money, but to suggest that we meet at some random place at some allotted time, knowing very well that I would of course show up and she wouldn't, and I would therefore spend a couple hours waiting around and wasting my time looking for her, now that's just plain inconsiderate! I said no way. But the fool that I am, knowing very well I would most likely never see that money again, I gave her the extra twenty -- pride got the better of me and I didn't want to be an @$$hole... I said no, I didn't want to meet her at rossio. If she was for real I knew she'd find me and get the money back to me. Then she walked off and appologized again for interruptinig my snack.
You know what I did next? I suppose I should have followed her, or even offered to go along with her, or asked for some identification or something. I didn't do any of that. As soon as she walked away, I got the hell out of there -- for two reasons -- first I didn't want her coming back and asking for more, but second, even if she was legitimate and was going to give me my money back, anybody in the square who might have been looking our way had just seen me hand out money twice to the same girl. Talk about a mark! So I packed up my snack and quickly walked away.
There was no room 424 in my hostel.
I'm reminded of the time when I went for a hair cut and asked for her to take an inch and a half off. She said, oh, do you want me to use the number 8 guard? No, I want it to be an inch and a half. Right now it's about three, please don't take it down shorter than an inch and a half of it'll stick up.
No, trust me, it'll look good.
No, I know my hair, it'll stick up. Please no clippers.
I should have walked out of the place at that point, but instead let her use the clipper figuring if she insisted that much she had no idea how to cut with scissors. Sometimes I just need to walk away when I know bad things are about to happen...

Fwd: An hour from madrid

I'm about an hour away from the madrid chamartin train station and I happen to know there's a wireless hotspot there (mainly the last one I was able to sync up from...) so I figured I'd try to get something put together before arriving.
I just spent the last night on a train from algeciras -- there was a little internet terminal there at the train station that charged a euro for 10 minutes -- I tried sending a short entry with 30 seconds left that said nothing more than "I'm alive -- heading toward madrid..." I know I hit send before my time ran out, but with gmail I'm never quite sure if it actually succeeded (sorry gmail, I'm quite greatful for the free pop access, so I hate to knock your service).
Anyway, you all know me, and I can't just tell you what I've been up to before I rant and rave about something. I've spent a few nights on trains, and last night has to have been the worst. I got a couchette from algeciras and this was one of the six person ones that I was expecting every other time and somehow never got up until now. There were only four of us in the compartment, but I was one of the ones on top, and one of the other guys was also on top. He was exactly the one guy I'd rather not have had to share a compartment with. Pute madre! (sorry, to all the spanish speaking world, but I've heard a lot of that from the girls I was hanging out with the last few days, and somehow if I sware in spanish I feel like it won't disturb my mom as much =) Anyway, this was your run of the mill hippy type guy with long hair not quite yet rolled into dreads, scrawny frame, a couple tatoos, relatively dirty, a bit on the smelly side, constantly coughing... And I got to sleep a few feet a way from him. Considering the couchette was about a foot shorter than me, there wasn't much I could do but fold my legs which tends to work best when your on your side. It was easier to face away from the wall, but that meant facing him, which, if he was facing me, meant smelling his breath... About two hours into the ride I roll over through the veil of darkness notice he's doing the exact same thing the german girls had to deal with from the guy in the riga hostel -- wanking off. Come on! I'm trying to sleep here! Have some common decency and use the bathroom! An hour or so later the ladder starts rattling constantly and I keep having to push it to one side to stop it. I see a flash of light and I think maybe its my neighbor trying to figure out how to stop the raddle -- apparently he has his own way to deal with it, because the flash of light is from a lighter and he isn't looking at the ladder -- he's warming up some hash to go have a smoke... Soon there after he disappears out into the hall and comes back smelling as you'd expect. At this point I decide I've had enought --- I put my flip flops on and spend the rest of the night in the cafeteria car. I mean really -- talk about rude, he could have at least offered to share ;-)
Ok, enough of my rants and raves. I know some of you really just want to know what the hell I've been up to. I decided to hell with everything else and if I was going to morocco I couldn't cop out and just do the ferry ride over, tap my hands on the ground, say finally, I've been to africa and then head back right away. Instead as I think I mentioned, I hopped on a night train to marakesh with a spanish/argentinian couple and checked into a hotel there. My second day there I ended up hanging out mostly with Carlos and Luciana and getting a little bit of practice with my spanish. I have to say I am quite a bit messed up with languages at this point -- always back and forth between spanish and french. The other day I spoke a few words of german with a waiter and half way through groaned because I broke into spanish!
Mostly we just wandered around the medina haggling with the shop keepers -- they were looking to buy some shoes, but I don't think they ever actually did while I was around. The only thing I bought all trip was a bit of saffron -- and I know I overpaid. A little over 5 bucks for 2.5 grams. It may have been cheaper than in the states, but I'm sure I could have done better if I'd shopped around and haggled for it. This was in Fes though and I guess I'm getting ahead of myself.
Anyway, the first day in marakesh I was trying to find the palace and decided the easiest way to find tourist stuff was to follow other tourists. As I didn't want the two australian girls to think I was stalking them, I introduced myself and found they also had no clue where they were going. We spent a while looking for the palace only to eventually figure out that all you couldl really do was walk by the big wall around it -- not particularly interesting. Afterwards we had dinner and tea, and I think it was during my conversation with them that I finally had a revelation as to why european music is so plastic and overproduced -- all the comments I've made in the past about the music here, they don't apply to the UK -- they have their own set of underground music. I was talking about my music preferences when it comes to listening to spanish or french music though, and I tend to like the more poppy crap, largely because its easier to understand the lyrics. Why it took me so long to put myself in the europeans shoes and realize they don't speak native english, so of course they'd prefer stuff that's easier to understand, and even more so, the familiarity of the same songs played over and over again year after year, because you already know the lyrics to them, well, duh, that kind of all explains it!
Yeah, yeah, I know, enough of the desultory remarks. I'm pulling into the station soon though so I'll have to wrap this up quickly. Lets see, left marakesh for a night in rabat, stayed at an overpriced hotel because I didn't have a map and couldn't find anything else. Didn't think much of rabat so I left the next day.
Met an australian couple on the train to fes and walked to the hostel with them. Split the cost of a guide with them the next morning to see the medina -- that's when I paid too much for the safron. One shop was selling skarves and clothes and after a good 10 minutes of me trying my best at french to explain why I wasn't going to buy anything, the shopkeeper gave up the hard sell and admitted he spoke fluent english because he'd lived in texas for 20 years! We had a good laugh after that. At lunch with the aussies, a moroccan at the table next to us asked where we were from. He said he thought I was american and flashed his illinois drivers license. Then went on to tell us how he married an american woman, and after a few questions from us quickly clarified that he had a wife here and his american wife was just a fake so he could get the citizenship. Apparently the going rate is 10k if anybody wants to make a quick buck =)
The next day I took a bus over to chefchaon with the aussie couple. Some guys at my hotel in marakesh had highly recommended it and given me a card for the hotel where they'd stayed. We weren't disappointed -- aside from some of the annoyances of the peddlers trying to sell you stuff or show your their shops, it was very tranquil up in the hills.
From there I headed out on a bus with plans to hop on a 36 hour ferry to france. On the bus though I sat behind three spanish girls who had just come over for a quick visit and were going to spend the night in asila before taking their ferry back to algeciras. From there they were driving to a town outside of cadiz and then to bilbao -- Ane offered for me to join them (depending on whether the luggage all fit) and that was too much of a spur of the moment adventure for me to pass up so I jumped at the opportunity. Unfortunately the luggage didn't fit, and it was raining so we didn't make it to asila -- instead we just split a room at a hotel in tanger and then they were nice enough to squeeze me in for a ride from the port to the trainstation. So that's a quick summary of morocco...
I'm pulling into madrid now and think my batteries about to die, so ciao!

Thursday, November 09, 2006

im alive

in  allgeciras heading to barcelona...